In this episode of the Men’s Mysteries I discuss the importance of taking responsibility around what you allow in your life in terms of people and behavior. You aren’t responsible for what other people do, but you are responsible for what you allow in your life. I share why its important to learn how to say no to other people and establish good boundaries.
The Relationship between Power and Boundaries
Nice Guys have porous boundaries. They end up being walked all over, and they act out their anger and resentment instead of expressing it cleanly. I share why having clear boundaries can help you take back your personal sense of power, while also creating safer relationships for everyone involved.
Are you Abandoning Yourself?
Are you abandoning yourself to please someone else? I share how to identify if you are, and why this actually hurts your relationship with yourself and the other person.
Thank you but no: How to Set Boundaries
No is a magic work and learning how to say it and stick with is an important skill. I share why men need to learn how to say no in their own lives. Additionally I discuss why it’s important to learn how to listen and accept a no, and move on with your life. Finally we discuss self respect and how setting your own boundaries and acknowledging other peoples’ boundaries is a form of self respect.
How to maintain your boundaries as a spiritual discipline
I discuss how to set boundaries and then explore the sacred masculine mysteries of Saturn in relationship to setting boundaries. I also share why boundaries can help you become more aware of your own limits and discuss how poor boundaries allow you to get stepped all over.
