You have needs, wants and desires. Don’t fool yourself otherwise. You must be honest with yourself about what you need and want for your life. The more you repress your own needs and wants, the more you do yourself and everyone around you a disservice because you can’t authentically show up the way you need to show up for anyone, when you can’t show up for anyone else.
You have sexual desires, but those are just the tip of what your needs and wants are.
You have the need to go out and get physical with your body in some form or manner.
You have the need to exercise your mind, your spirit, your emotions, and your body.
All of these needs are essential and when you put them to the side or repress them you set yourself up to be a nice guy. Give yourself something better than that: Be honest with yourself and others by advocating for you needs and wants.
And watch as your relationships change because you are standing up for yourself.
