So many of us check out with our bodies and our sexuality.
We get caught up in trying to perform toward expectations around how sex ought to be.
We get caught up in trying to reach a specific outcome, without appreciating the experience leading up to that experience.
We get caught up in the value judgments we make about ourselves in relationship to our sexual performance and the fear we have about how others will evaluate us.
And in the midst of all that, we lose touch with our actual desires, wants and needs.
A man in touch with his sacred masculinity is in touch with his body, in touch with his sexual desires and is able to embody all of that and be present with himself and his partners without having to perform or measure up.
We embrace our bodies without feeling shame and accept our sexual desires without judging them. We honor ourselves and our partners and take joy in the intimate expression of sex.
