Men abandon themselves to fit into society.

They give away their inner sovereignty and with it their mission and purpose. They become nice guys who continually sacrifice their needs, wants, and longings in an attempt to get approval from other people.

It isn’t working.

Men face a crisis. No one wants to be in a relationship with a man who is in the immature masculine. No one wants to take care of you as if you were a child.

The mistake that men are making is they are trying too hard to please someone else, in the unspoken hope that they will get what they want. Men are abandoning themselves to fit in and be approved of. The results are:

• Broken relationships

• Disrespect

• Disconnection

• Loss of trust

• Settling for less

• Being small

The result is a man who is out of touch with his inner sovereign: the embodiment of the divine and primal masculine in his life.

So many men think they have to white knuckle their way through life and put on a lone wolf mask where they show that they are strong and independent and don’t need anyone. But on the inside they are aching for connection and relationship and don’t know how to express their needs and wants with clarity. And as a result they don’t get the relationships they want and they don’t have the community connection they need either.

What is the solution?

You need a code of conduct that challenges you to become the best man you can be, holds you responsible for the choices you make and connects you with the primal and divine power of your inner sovereign.

You need the Sovereign Code.

The sovereign code is designed to help you step on the path of mature masculinity and begin the process of embodying it in your life and in your relationships. When you live by a code, you hold yourself to the highest standard, because that code creates the container of responsibility and accountability that all men need. It also creates the medicine of community that shows each man that he is not alone.

Men need to do their work, and that comes in many forms, but when we have a code of behavior that provides us a blueprint and design for how we can show up in our everyday lives and in the process empower ourselves to become the best man possible, it creates the necessary structure to help us heal our wounds AND create relational safety with the people around us.

We must connect with our inner sovereign and find the balance between the primal and divine by connecting with embodied masculinity. But this isn’t work you can do on your own. This is work that needs structure and community and process, where you are supported by other men who can relate to where you are AND help you take the next step to evolve and grow into a man who is confident, trustworthy and safe, and yet also inspires love, lust and devotion on the part of your partner.

However, if you take this class for the wrong reason it won’t help you! Watch the video below to learn why you shouldn’t take this class.

If you’re ready to empower yourself to become the best man you can possibly be, and in the process take charge of your life, then the Sovereign code is for you.

If you’re fed up with being the nice guy and feeling like your needs and wants come last, then the sovereign code is for you.

If you want the freedom to live your life on your terms, instead of living by someone else’s rules, then the sovereign code is for you.

When you take the sovereign code class, you will be taking on a specific way of being and acting that aligns you with your deepest desires as well as your mission and purpose. You will learn how to design and a live a life that is aligned with your inner truth and in the process attract the relationships and connection you long for. In this class you will learn:

• How to create and connect with the core values of your sovereign code and apply them to your life. When you live a life devoted to your core values, you live a life of integrity and this attracts what you want to your life.

• How to apply your sovereign code to your life through behaviors and actions that create a deep sense of safety and presence. Your behaviors and actions make your code more than just a conceptual philosophy. They define how you show up with yourself and other people.

• How to attract like minded people and create the community that supports you, even as you support it. Community is the medicine that brings healing and opens the doors of opportunity.

• How to live an embodied life, where you actively care for your needs, respect yourself and advocate for what you want. When a man communicates with clarity he creates a safer world for the people around him, but this only happens when the man is embodied and present with himself.

The sovereign code is your opportunity to create and live your life as an empowered, present and awakened man who is in touch with every level of his being and is able to share that presence with the world.

I’ve been where you’re at. I used to be a nice guy. I sacrificed my wants and needs on the altar of making other people happy. I worked at jobs I hated, living by other peoples’ rules because I thought I didn’t have a choice. I was miserable and unhappy in my relationships, because I was giving away my sovereignty, my power and presence to make other people happy and it wasn’t working. I didn’t feel respected or valued by them and I didn’t respect myself.

On the outside I looked successful. I had written and published multiple books. I had a decent paying job and I seemed to have my act together. But on the inside I was a hot mess. I didn’t know who I was or what I wanted and I was unable to inspire devotion or love in my relationships. Instead I was a care taker servant, getting walked all over while my own needs and wants were unmet, because I wasn’t expressing or advocating for them.

I begged my girlfriend for sex and she told me that it wasn’t her responsibility to satisfy my needs. She was right. It wasn’t her responsibility AND I realized then and there that she didn’t respect me, love me, or want me. She saw through my neediness and didn’t want any part of it. She only valued me for my wallet and what I could provide for her. And it made me sick to my stomach.

Something had to change…

I made a fateful decision to stop abandoning myself to please other people. I made a decision to become the sovereign of my life and stop giving away my presence, power and influence to other people who don’t value me.

I promised myself that I was never going to abandon myself again. I chose to ask myself what I really wanted and then designed the path of my life and in the process created my sovereign code, where I could embody the core values and behaviors that are essential to my truth and joy and are an expression of my sovereignty.

I walked away from my relationship, left behind my job and chose myself. I chose to live my life on my terms, according to my values, and in the process I came to respect myself because I finally stepped up to become the sovereign of my life and here’s what changed when I did it:

• I take care of myself without apology or justification, because I can’t show up for anyone else without taking care of myself.

• I take ownership of my life, my dreams and my joy, because no one else is going to give me what I want.

• I no longer abandon myself to make other people happy. I say yes to myself and my needs and wants.

• I speak up for what I want with confidence and grace, instead of with codependent neediness.

• I believe in myself and my ability to follow through, with integrity and awareness, on manifesting the life I want to live, on my terms.

• I’m no longer driven to seek the s*xual approval and attention of others. My sxx is a gift I choose to give when there is mutual desire and consent.

I took control of my life, and stopped living the co-dependent nice guy life where I was settling for less with my career, relationship, creativity and life. I stopped living for the approval of other people and stopped seeking the good opinion of others.

I started living life on my terms, and the doors of opportunity opened and I started getting what I wanted because I no longer doubted myself or tried to get anyone’s approval.

And you can do the same.

What if this could be you…

• You have unshakeable confidence in your ability to respond to any situation and turn it to your favor.

• You live your life by your own terms, with your code of behavior and use it to access all the abundance and opportunities that the universe provides.

• You exude a sense of grace and power and control over yourself, your desires and your s*x drive and as a result people are drawn to you.

• You say yes to yourself and no to everyone else, because you don’t abandon yourself to other people.

• You know what you want and you know how to turn what you want into reality.

• You connect with other men in sacred brotherhood and know they have your back, even as you have their backs.

• You are a magnet for women because of how you carry and conduct yourself, and because you bring presence and depth that they’ve never experienced before with other men. They want you MORE than you want them.

And you become the Sovereign of your life

Here’s what you’ll learn inside

The Sovereign Code:

You’ll be guided through the 12 core values of the code: Responsibility, Self-Respect, Embodiment, Awareness, Presence, Integrity, Discipline, Freedom, Attraction, Creativity, Relationship, and Leadership. These core values form the culture of support and brotherhood that provides the medicine of community, while strengthening you as a man and a person. Learning and applying them to yourself will change how you relate to yourself and the world around you. You will learn how to attract the opportunities and possibilities that enable you to create your life on your terms.

This is a 12 step process which will guide you to become the best version of yourself as a man and a human being. You will come out the other side more confident and assured than you’ve ever been, knowing you don’t need anyone and also knowing you can have what and who you want, because you have mastered yourself, your appetites and the way you show up in the world.

You must believe in the possibility that you have untapped depths within you that can lead you to the primal and divine sources of your identity. You must commit to transforming yourself into the man you want to become, a man who is in control of himself, confident in his ability to attract the abundance of the universe to him, and willing to assert himself for what he wants without being an overbearing, domineering man.

You see, the sovereign isn’t a tyrant or a bully. He is in touch with the subtle power of his creativity and imagination and his ability to manifest possibilities into reality. He knows all of this is within him already. It just needs to brought out and applied.

That’s what this course is going to teach you. This course exists to help you access the deepest roots of your wisdom and power and bring them out into the light.

This is a call to the highest version of yourself.

Ready to become the leader of your life?

Not sure if this class is for you? Read on…

If you’re not living the life you want to live, and you’re in that place of mediocre comfort where you numb yourself in quiet desperation, I feel for you. I’ve been where you’re at.

The thing is, staying in that place of mediocre comfort isn’t going to get you the life you want, the intimate connections you seek or the purposeful work you’re wanting to engage in. It’s just going to keep you where you are, wishing your life was different, but not taking any action.

And this will spill over into your relationships. Your woman knows when you aren’t living a life of integrity and authenticity. She can sense it from a mile away and she’s not going to let you off the hook, because she wants you to step up and show her that you can be the man she really wants to be with, a confident, empowered sovereign who knows himself and shows up with his best in everyway.

This course isn’t going to teach you a quick fix or pretend your way into a successful career, relationship or any of the other desires you crave.

What it will do is teach you how to become the sovereign of your life and in the process express the authority and confidence that already lives within you.

And this is a process that will never be done. You are starting a journey that will last a life time and will call on you to be the best man you can be each and everyday. You aren’t taking this journey for someone else and there isn’t a checklist that you can check off and know that everything is done.

This is a journey you have to take for yourself.

You don’t go on this journey for her, or anyone else. You go on this journey for YOU. You are on a journey of self-improvement that will never be done, but you do it to become the best possible man you can be and then you look at where you can be even better.

The Sovereign Code is a lifelong learning process that you apply to your self-development and your connection to the communities you are part of.

This is a slow process that will confront you on every level of your being. You will come into contact with your wounds, weaknesses and your deepest pain.

And it is a process that will connect you to your deepest desires, longings and needs, bringing them into creative expression so you can manifest the life you’ve always deserved.

A life of authentic, passionate, embodied confidence and integrity.

Each step of this journey will bring you into alignment with your true self, freed of the societal constraints and nice guy behaviors that are holding you back from the life you want and keeping you in the small, mediocre existence that is keeping you small.

Each step of this journey will bring you into living a life where you lead yourself from the inside out. Each step you take this journey will change your relationship to the universe and how the universe responds to the man you are.

Want to Learn More?

The universe shows up differently for you when you show up differently with yourself.

It’s not enough to hit the gym, or dress differently. And you can’t fake confidence until you make it. The work you do has to come from within you and it requires that you give it your all and examine in yourself the areas of your life that must change if you want to become a sovereign man.

It is possible to heal yourself of the deep wounds you carry that are holding you back from the life you want to live. But it requires a commitment to excellence for yourself so you can become a powerful, kind, embodied and present man.

That’s the kind of man you deserve to be, but you have to EARN it.

No one is going to give it to you on a silver platter and trying to do this work solely on your own isn’t going to get you there either. You need a level of support in this work that will keep you on track for the journey and help you integrate the lessons you learn into your life. If you’re ready to make that commitment, the Sovereign Code will show you how.